There are few strict rules when writing an obituary, as long as the author feels that they have honored their loved one through words. While not essential, an obituary forms a common part of the funeral planning process.Īn obituary will also include the date of death, the cause of death (optional), along with a photograph of the individual. It usually includes a brief summary of the deceased and their life, funeral service details, and any extra messages that family members would like to convey. Typically published in a newspaper, an obituary is a notice of death to the community.